Warning signs
When to see the pediatrician — quick reference by age
Most variations in development are normal. But some signs warrant investigation. Early identification of any issue is what most improves outcomes.
Most developmental variations are normal. But some signs warrant investigation. Early identification of any issue is what most improves outcomes.
At 2 months, see the pediatrician if
- Doesn't respond to loud sounds
- Doesn't track objects with her eyes
- Doesn't smile at people
- Can't lift her head when on her stomach
At 6 months, see the pediatrician if
- Doesn't roll in either direction
- Doesn't laugh or squeal with joy
- Doesn't reach for objects
- Doesn't respond to her own sounds (no "conversation")
- Seems very stiff or very floppy
At 9 months, see the pediatrician if
- Doesn't bear weight on her legs
- Doesn't sit with support
- Doesn't babble
- Doesn't play exchange games (peek-a-boo)
- Doesn't respond to her own name
- Doesn't recognize familiar people
At 12 months, see the pediatrician if
- Doesn't crawl
- Doesn't stand with support
- Doesn't search for hidden objects
- Doesn't say any words
- Doesn't use gestures like waving or pointing
- Loses skills she previously had (regression is always a warning sign)
References
- American Academy of Pediatrics — Task Force on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (2022). Sleep-Related Infant Deaths: Updated 2022 Recommendations for Reducing Infant Deaths in the Sleep Environment. Pediatrics, 150(1). doi:10.1542/peds.2022-057990
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